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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Red & Black Week: Dinner Date!

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This outfit was just a quick change after work to go for Persian food with the husband. As I was preparing this post I realized that it is a 100% Mall Outfit! Aside from the shoes, everything on my person came from the mall.

I know you are thinking, “Boy, for someone who’s far too old to be a Mall Goth, she sure does spend a lot of time at the mall!”  It's partly because there isn't much to do in our small town, and my husband and I both love shopping.


Goth has been around for three decades now, and in that time it’s only natural that certain elements would successfully infiltrate the mainstream. It’s a look that many people find attractive to some degree, even if they are not part of the culture. Not to mention, the evening wear market has long been dominated by the black, lacy and sparkly; items that we dark ones can surely put to use!  I know that while the mainstream may adopt some elements that Goths made famous, those things will always look better on us than on them.  I use those trends as opportunities to make my life simpler by grabbing up what is readily available and relatively inexpensive.

As an added bonus, shopping at familiar stores seems to give the normies in my life a feeling that I am more approachable. They realize that they can relate to me when they learn that I shop at many of the same places they do, such as Macy’s, Dillards, and New York & Company.

I’m rambling on now, but with a point. And that is, don't shun readily available shopping resources just because they aren't Goth enough. YOU are Goth enough, so take advantage of what is available (and often less expensive), and make it uniquely you.

Besides, where do you think the pioneers of our genre back in the early 80s got their clothing? There was no Lip Service or Demonia back then… Something to think about :)

So, give me the truth now: what store dominates your wardrobe?


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16 comments:

Unknown said...

This is my favourite outfit so far, you look stunning! I love that top.

Zellain said...

I love this outfit, that necklace is really pretty. I'll admit that I forgot about Red & Black Week for a couple of days, but I put up a post today for it.

Tenebris In Lux said...

Hah, that's alright (about the mall thing). We used to have a Hot Topic in my mall. I rarely bought anything there, but my friends were always dragging me to the place and buying me stuff from their clearance. Totally forgivable .. ^_^

Sal Kaye - Still Dark @ Heart said...

I agree: Great top and beautiful necklace!

Well, I don't care about where I shop as long as I find things I like. :)

And personally I LOVE American malls! I just don't get the chance to shop there very often. :(

Trystan L. Bass said...

I'm coveting your necklace...

What stores? I shop everywhere! I have a ton of clothes from Old Navy, the Gap, Target, & Macy's, plus catalogs like Newport News, Chadwicks, & Speigel. Those all prob. account for 75% of my closet -- you can always find black & often dark colors (in fall/winter) there & at reasonable prices.

I also layer a lot, so I'll wear T-shirts, knit tops, camis, leggings & thus I stock up at places like Old Navy/Gap.

Amy Asphodel said...

What a gorgeous top!

I really love finding stuff at the mall, especially from shops that you really wouldn't expect to carry Goth-friendly items. I agree - an item of clothing isn't 'Goth' in and of itself, but the person wearing it might be! (You said it better... XP)

Anonymous said...

Great outfit again, I don't care about mall stuff, I am poor and buy all my clothes cheap.

Batsinthe Belfry said...

Haha, you are so right! I shop mostly second hand and usually the clothes were originally from the mall... :D Some pieces I alter myself and voilá, cheap, green and unique!

GlumPlum said...

I love your outfit today! It's so form flattering and that shirt paired with that necklace, is just perfection. I love how this outfit beautifully flatters your form is really all I have to say about this outfit. It's lovely for you but I don't think I could pull it off so, more power to you! :)
-Kelli <3

Sada said...

Mall Goth...so funny! I think the sign of a confident "stylist" is being able TO shop ANYWHERE and recognize items that work with your personal look! Obviously you have this down! This is a very sophisticated look and I love it.
xo
Sada
http://dressologyhq.blogspot.com

Il Ruinante Sir Isaak said...

Mmmmm, completely overrun my wardrobe? Actually, it's probably a toss up between Target, Khols, and conventions. In that I buy the graphic Ts and such.

Even at the lovely mall stores, or non-Gothic stores [aristo, visual kei, lolita, etc], the mother person harps on me if I pick black out of the selection of red, white, blue, and black of something. I can't help it if the black one looks the best between those color choices.

Your shirt is fabulous, I made a purple one in a similar design. It had more draping sleeves, like that for kimonos.

VictorianKitty (Sophistique Noir) said...

Another great Red & Black day! :-D Thank you everyone for your comments and your contributions! And I'm delighted to see how many other Goths don't limit themselves to just Goth brands!!

Looking forward to tomorrow, everyone. :) And then Friday is the Grand Finale!!

Corin said...

I love this red&black outfit the most I think! The top is sooo pretty... It makes you look even more beautiful!

Phoenix said...

I looove this outfit! That top is amazing.

Julianne said...

That top is beautiful. I shop pretty much anywhere, mostly second-hand, which means I pay little attention to labels!

Anonymous said...

I love finding amazing pieces in mainstream stores. Shopping online is great, but I hate having to wait for my item and being disappointed if it doesn't fit or look like I expected. People seem so surprised when I say I get most of my stuff from places like Target, JC Penney, Maurices, and even Walmart.